The timing really couldn’t be more perfect. After weeks of postponement, Season 5 of #NHBi finally got to a start on the eve of Valentine’s Day, and we couldn’t have gotten it hotter and more steaming than having @GinaFatale discussing ‘How to Spice Up Your Sex Life.’
Communication, our guest told us is the bedrock to having an awesome sex life.
‘When you communicate with your partner about your sexual desires, limits, fantasies, requests, curiosities, preferences, styles etc, you lay a concrete foundation for an ever evolving and kick ass sex life. That thing that freaked you out yesterday may intrigue u tomorrow; what felt really nice today, might turn out to be too rough and unpleasant tomorrow.
Change is constant, not excluding your sexual preference.’
If you thought all this talk about communication was just textbook material, our guest got down to the nitty gritty with her 10 Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life.
1. DO IT AS OFTEN AS YOU CAN:
spontaneous sex is good, but not always necessary. Don’t be above making plans & seeing it through
2. Foreplay: not everytime kpa kpa kpa, roll over and snore or throw legs in opposite direction and be doing mhm mhm until it’s over.
Just because u know each other’s body don’t mean u shouldn’t explore it as if it’s the first time. Have single pringle aunty come get d kids. Modulate between luxuriating and passionate urgency, whichever one you choose, bring your A game.
3.Talk Dirty: you really don’t have to get smutty for it to be sexy, 4get what you hear in porn, you’ll end up sounding like a ridiculous pervert.
4. HEAD GAME: it is the season of love, only natural that the head is served as side dish.
Pro tip 1: You don’t always have to stimulate to completion, have fun with it tease, warm , caress, stroke with tongue/hand.
Pro tip 2: Ladies, put your hair in a scrunchie, I don’t know how those porn stars don’t choke on their own hair, be comfortable, it helps.
Pro tip 3: guys, have a pillow beneath her pelvis, it surely is more comfortable for you to give that pleasure.
Pro tip 4: spitting instead of swallowing is NOT a rejection of your partner/ & PLEASE, cumming on the face is not a thing! STOP IT
5. Role Play: You’ve been Mr. X /Mrs X a while now, it’s val, try being a LASTMA official, pepeye or whatever gets u both in the mood.
6.Masturbate for the others pleasure: how else can u can u show your partner how you like it, visual aids are a turn on for everyone.
7. Tell a Story: This goes hand in hand with 6, while partner A is busy with self, help play out that fantasy with a naughty story.
8. Dress Up: Lingerie is for special occasions, valentine et al. it helps too if you are a little too conscious of your body. It helps heighten your libido and don’t sweat it if it gets torn. That’s the whole idea. Throw in a strip tease if you are up for it.
9. Different positions/Locations: Do I really need to explain this part? oh well, I’ll try; I love my bed, its high, comfy, doesn’t squeak, firm, the sheets, so soft, but you hardly remember the do on it unlike d kitchen table, the balcony, the shower stall, aunty’s house, friend’s lawn and the entire creative places you two can find.
10. INVEST IN SEX TOYS: I’m talking cock rings, vibrators, cuffs, blindfolds, ticklers, sex games, sex vouchers, arousal gels etc
Our guest really had quite a curtain raiser of a show for the new season. And her tips just had everyone favoriting and retweeting away.
If you thought this was an enlightening episode, join us again as we return to our regular programming from next week, Wednesday at 9pm Nigerian time.
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